5 Steps For Sex Chat Success


Using sex chat sites has become a popular source of porn for many people, and is now a preferred method for meeting and talking to people to have some dirty fun with. Navigating these sites is fairly easy, but what isn’t, is landing a successful sex chat where you get exactly what you’re looking for — sex.

Whether you’re inexperienced, not the best at sex chatting, or looking for new insight on how to improve your sex chat success, here are some tips to keep in mind when embarking on your next sex chat hunt.

  1. Choose The Right Site

    If you’re not good with words and are more of a shower than a writer, then you wouldn’t want to pick a sex chat site that is text-only, such as FreeChatNow. Similarly, if you’re on the shyer side and don’t do well on camera with strangers, then you shouldn’t pick a sex cam site, either.

    The key here is to know yourself and what works for you, and how you like to have sex. If you know that you could really wow someone with your words and sensory details, then try out a sex chat room, but if you consider yourself a better shower than a teller, or want to see something more than words, sex cam sites like Instant Chat or Dirty Roulette are perfect for you.

  2. Increase Your Options

    When you enter a sex chat site of your choice, you’ll usually be able to see how many people are online or are in the individual room you picked.

    This is usually a high number, too, depending on which site you’re on. Having a high volume of people in one place that are all looking for sex is a chance to increase your success on these platforms on its own.

    This means that instead of wasting your time messaging one person at a time and dedicating every minute to them in hopes of having sex , you should try messaging a multitude of people! Increasing the number of people you message can only increase your chances, and you’ll be able to meet tons of different people this way.

    Also, you can lure people to you by stating in the main sex chat room your direct intentions. You can do this by typing in something like “Male. 27. Who wants to fuck?”

    The point is to be straight to the point so no time is wasted.

  3. Utilize Filters/Categories

    If you’re on a roulette sex chat type of website, or any that has the option, you’ll notice features that let you filter the type of people you talk to. You can use this tool so that you talk to the people you want to.

    You can select the age, for example, or gender, country, or sex category like BDSM chat, anal chat, or other. Some sites like Shagle even have a gender filter where you can choose to talk to girls only, which helps cut down the unwanted ones.

  4. Use Emojis

    Yes, using your words is an integral part of sex chatting and is what keeps the conversation going until you both cum (which should be your goal), but you should never underestimate the power of an emoji.

    They say a lot with the little effort it takes to type them, but they get the point across. Emojis have become a universal sex code for this day and age, and everyone knows an extensive use of them is symbolic for sex. They also work great at representing physical action if you’re not using your webcam to chat, and leave the other person’s imagination wandering.

  5. Know When To Skip

    If you sense that the person you’re talking to could be a bot, or someone trying to scam you, nine times out of ten they are. Skip.

    If they’re taking too long to reply or seem disinterested; skip.

    If they’re boring to you or not giving you what you need, then skip them!

    Knowing when it’s time to skip or to keep pursuing is critical. You don’t want to end up giving too much attention to someone who’s not going to follow through or reciprocate the same energy you’re giving, so it’s better to skip and move on to the next.

3 Of The Worst Excuses For Cheating

For some reason, cheaters somehow justify their infidelity with some ridiculous trickery, causing you to think that their cheating may actually be your fault?

Never fall for that shit, please.

Be careful of the manipulative backstabbers out there that know the rights things to say, using their puppy dog eyes at the right moments.

If you’ve ever been cheated on then, you have definitely heard one of these sneak their way into the various apologies.

I Was Drunk:

We all get drunk and horny, but it’s no excuse to engage in sexual activities with someone else other than you’re a partner. It’s hard not to make rash and impulsive decisions, especially in the spur of the moment but if you sincerely care about your relationship you’ll fight the urge.

If you’re in a relationship and getting blacked out is still one of your priorities, it may be time to reevaluate what you’re doing with your life. You’re a little limited when you’re taken, but it doesn’t mean that you should simply stop having fun, just do so without trying to get laid by someone new.

Even if alcohol impairs your judgment, you should still be able to wrap your head around the fact that you’re dating someone other than the random person you’re pursuing.

It Just Happened:

Having intercourse with somebody else doesn’t “just happen.” It’s called self-control, and there is no reason that things should have gotten to the point where sex was the only available option to end the night.

Nothing sexual ‘just happens’ without any intent or motive, regardless of who instigated it, it takes two to tango. If your partner is taking time out of their day or night to build sexual tension with someone other than you and actually acting on it, they obviously know what happens when two horny adults engage for longer than necessary.

You Were Gone:

If you’re in a committed relationship you sure as hell learned some sort of patience so you should be able to withstand some time without your partner.
And might I add, if you’re old enough to be in a serious relationship then you’ve probably had experience pleasuring yourself, so there’s no reason you had to turn to someone else to get you off?

There are numerous activities to do when you’re bored and without your partner, and having sex with someone else shouldn’t be one of the options.

Please don’t be a fool and accept these sad excuses by rationalizing them as their apologies. You’re much better than that, and the least they can do is own up to it instead of blaming anything or anyone but themselves.

We are all human and make mistakes here and there, but if someone is going to throw a relationship or marriage away, it should be worth more than these sorry cheating wife excuses.

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